Let's be honest - you're never going to have a co-operative co-parenting relationship like you see in the movies.
But it doesn't mean your co-parenting needs to be full of abuse, ignorance, denigration, lies, and chaos.
Right now you're stuck in the cycle of pandering to the other parent, deflecting as they fire at you, and bending over backwards in an attempt to ensure they don't get upset.
You've learnt that when the other parent is not unhappy, life is clam but when they're upset it's like a hurricane is about to hit! You've learnt to put your needs and those of your children aside in order to avoid upsetting someone who is reactive and unpredictable.
This is no way to live for you or your kids.
It's time to stop having everything revolve around the other parent.
BUT HOW?
If you're someone who is able to reflect on their own behaviour and follow a recipe, co-parenting coaching can be successful for you.
When you show up to the sessions, lay all your cards on the table, and do the work, co-parenting coaching can be successful for you.
But here's our promise. If you book your chat with Kirsty, and she doesn't think co-parenting coaching is suitable for your family, she will tell you.
Kirsty is 100% a straight shooter - there's no BS in her coaching sessions.
You're both either upfront and honest, or you're both wasting your time.
Of course Kirsty wants to change lives for as many families as possible, but if she doesn't think that is likely for you, she will tell you. Kirsty only takes 5 new coaching clients each month, so she is listening to make sure you're a good fit just as much as you're checking her out!
Maybe you don't trust that change is possible - you've been stuck in how it is right now for so long that you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. That's okay - most people in your place know they want life to be different but don't know how to achieve it. Kirsty knows what needs to be done and will honestly and kindly direct you towards a different kind of co-parenting.
Past clients have described Kirsty's approach as blunt but not brutal.
You need someone in your corner, not someone butting heads with you.
Co-parenting coaching is about working together to discover new ways of approaching the things that are not helpful to ensure your children thrive.
What are you waiting for? Still have questions? Ask Kirsty when you chat about the program.